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Dyslexic children today, but tomorrow’s future
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| India Gate lit up in Red to spread awareness for Dyslexia in October |
Yet another October has gone by. Until a few years ago, October was for me the month when winter knocks at your door, early mornings have that pleasant chill and air pollution starts to hurt. But now, as the mother of a neurodiverse child, October is the month of walks and talks and posters and pamphlets to spread awareness of dyslexia.
Dyslexia is a very specific learning disability that makes reading and understanding written words difficult. It is easier to spot it in children before they learn to mask and hide the problem. Dyslexic children struggle to connect letters to sounds, they have trouble spotting rhyming words, and they flip words around. Some of them cannot easily comprehend what they are reading, they have a poor vocabulary, and they jumble the beginning, end and middle during storytelling. Dyslexic kids may freeze with multiple instructions or actions with multiple steps because it is tough to keep track of information in their working memory. Dyslexics may also struggle with writing or doing simple calculations and often also have dysgraphia and dyscalculia.
We all have that cousin or classmate who was considered a lost cause by the family, friends and teachers. Not good in studies, just barely keeping their heads above water, written off by everyone; they will amount to nothing much. Some of us are ourselves that daughter or son who the world had given up on. Of every 100 people around us, some 20 may have reading difficulties. A majority of these could be struggling with dyslexia. Dyslexia can be hereditary and often when kids get diagnosed, parents suddenly realise how they or their siblings used to struggle in school, how they still try to avoid reading or calculation and how they always have trouble with spelling.
Dyslexia is genetic and happens due to changes in the wiring in the brain. It is not a disease and it cannot be cured. But our brain can be trained to better manage reading and writing with help in the childhood years. Kids who get extra help from special educators, extra time in exams and are allowed to learn at their own pace, show great improvement in their school performance.
With so many audio and visual learning opportunities available online now, it is not difficult for dyslexics to learn using alternative methods. Schools are now required to provide children with special needs with accommodations to help them learn. School boards have special provisions for choice of subjects, extra time and assistance in exams for children with learning disabilities.
When I caught up with those cousins and friends that as a child, I had labelled as dumb, I realised how wrong I was! I look at them with admiration for their financial savvy, their artistic abilities, their negotiation skills, their enterprise, their empathy and some for their amazing selflessness!
As the world is changing and what we thought of as safe, secure, and intellectually challenging jobs, are under threat from the coming of Artificial Intelligence, it is these uniquely human abilities that are going to be much in demand. Steven Spielberg, Richard Branson and Agatha Christie are some of the great minds who struggled with learning disabilities in school. Perhaps like them, today’s dyslexic children, with help and our faith in them, are the ones who are going to change the way we see the world!
This article appeared in Hindustan Times, Nov03, 2023
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Saturday, April 30, 2022
Autism: Accepting our differences
April is Autism Awareness Month
Priyam was the life of the party at the day care centre. A bright-eyed boy who captured the heart of the caretakers and played with abandon. Sometime after his second birthday, all this started changing. He stopped playing with his toys, he seemed more interested in organizing them now. He stopped talking, not even responding even when called by name. He stopped smiling at people and making eye contact. Then the rhythmic movements started; rocking his body, banging his head or repeatedly tapping on the table. One day he banged his head so much that when his father came hurriedly summoned by the caretaker, there was a trickle of blood running down his face. That was his last day at the centre; they refused to keep him after that.
Nancy was different. Growing up in a family with siblings and grandparents, she was used to people. But outsiders were studiously ignored. She heard all the questions and comments, but never acknowledged them. Loud noises, rough-textured clothes, squishy toys, strong smelling foods, all caused strong aversion. Now ten, she ventures out to play with other kids. She is often confused by the endless chatting of the other kids. She cannot fathom why they can’t just come, play and go home. She comes home crying most days because the others refused to include her in their play. She is smart, she understands that she is doing something wrong, but does not know what.
After multiple visits to the paediatrician and clinical psychologists, numerous questionnaires, behavioural evaluations through observations and play, both Nancy and Priyam were diagnosed to have Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). People with ASD have difficulties in social interaction and communication, show repetitive behaviours like rocking movements or repeating certain words over and over again and are obsessive about routine and order in their daily lives. Between 1 in 50 to 1 in 150 people have a diagnosis of ASD in countries where this is being systematically done. In India, we do not have sufficiently uniform access to diagnosis to know the numbers.
A range of conditions previously known as Autism or Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD) or Asperger’s Syndrome now come under the common umbrella of Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD). Like Priyam and Nancy, people with ASD have very diverse difficulties, hence the term ‘spectrum’ is used. True to the name, brain scans of people with ASD show a range of differences: in the volume and size of brain and in the numbers and connectivity of neurons in the brain. But none of these differences are enough to diagnose a child as being on the Autism Spectrum. We know that the brains of ASD people are different from the brains of neurotypical people, but we still do not know how that causes the behavioural changes. Autism is mostly genetic; the risk for autism increases in families with previous cases of ASD. But there is no single ‘autism gene’ that can be tested for risk. The condition is a result of brain development being affected by a combination of nearly 100 or so genes.
High-functioning ASD kids, like Nancy, find it difficult to navigate the social world, but they are independent, able to attend mainstream schools, find employment and thrive. Many times, they excel at something that gets them noticed among their peers such as extraordinary mathematical, musical or artistic abilities. For such ‘high-functioning’ autistic kids, these skill make their journey through life somewhat easier. But at the other end of the ASD spectrum are the children who do not speak beyond a few words, like Priyam. Some, but not all nonverbal children, may also have intellectual disability. These children would usually need occupational therapy to identify objects by name, to learn to ask for help and communicate with others.
In a recent study scientists tested the communication abilities of neurotypical adults with autistic adults and autistic adults with other autistic adults. Very surprisingly, they found that autistic people could communicate with each as well as neurotypical people can with other neurotypical adults. This study revealed that perhaps it is not just the ASD individuals who need help with communication. But rather, the rest of the society should also learn how to communicate with, work with and value the diversity of brains we have amongst us. As parents, as teachers, as friends and family, we must learn how to open our arms and minds to differences amongst us. Many autistic children go on to live happy, fulfilled, loved and loving adult lives. But this journey always begins with acceptance and engagement at home and the immediate social circle.
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