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So, turned out we toasted with Sangria and Tapas and some great company. There were best wishes and sharing of plans and bridging across cultures, of here and there. Someone asked what would I miss most and what do I look forward to the most.

What would I miss most?
 
The luxury of quiet contemplation. After a day spent in the outside world, I can withdraw into my four-walled shell and spend my time in the most relaxing company, those neurons. Turn my thoughts over, consider what is and what not. Why and whyever not. Look deep inside and discover something new. Delve into the world and learn something old and well known. Digest, mull, ponder.

And what do I look forward to?

The inevitable, unrelenting human connection. The complete permeability of the home to the world. The air and light, the cold and heat, the sounds and smells that move within and without as though there were no walls separating them. The unavoidable contacts, physical and emotional. Being part and one with the noise, the bustle, the jostling, teeming, heaving, living world all around. Isolation prohibited.


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